Confidence Crisis

Crisis – Almost every one has witnessed a very critical stage in life when (s)he  feels (s)he is “booby trapped” , in pitfalls.

Consolation can be sought in the given words:

“How much ever Bigger Problem you got, tell that Problem you have got a Bigger God.”

“If we could look in every heart

We’ find that each one has its part

And those who travel fortune’s road

Sometimes carry the biggest load”

“Life’s made up of smiles and tears

Joys and sorrows mixed with fears

And though to us it seems one sided

Trouble is pretty well divided”

Some people are able to fine tune their mind frame to the resonance of the above words. Many are engulfed so much by those sweeping over problems that the understanding of the above seems above the realms of the human mind. What they don’t contemplate is that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.

But believe me all those crises are no crises, the ONLY time you are actually in a crisis is when you face a Confidence Crisis.  Self Doubt is a heinous Mental Abuse you can inflict upon yourself. Indecisiveness is another killer. I like this quote by Ratan Tata “ I don’t believe in Taking Right Decisions, I take decisions & Then Try to make them Right!” So always believe in your ability. No one gives you tension, you take them. So whoa its in your hands now… STOP TAKING IT SIMPLE!  Nah not simple… fine tuning needed that’s it.

Some More Quotes to ponder:

“Life is like a flute! It may have several holes & emptiness, but if we work on it the same flute produces Magical Melodies.”

“When in PAIN remember its expansion: Positive Approach in Negative Situations.”

“ Life never leaves you empty, it always replaces everything u lost. It asks u to put something down , coz it wants you to pick up something great.”

I wish that “May No one ever misses a sunset or a rainbow because s(he) is looking down."

Idiots Glorified Stupids Yet to be!! A Fair Autopsy!!!

Is it too late to blog or discuss about 3 idiots? Ummm... May be. Well but I m still going to do it basically on the presumption that the next to anthem " All is well " has not faded yet and is not expected to at least not till the Budget reinforces otherwise which means I got enuf number of days before 26th.

So is all REALLY well?? Ofcourse it is. But  I still tried scrutinising the making and building of the character Rancho chanchad; the behti hawa sa ,udati patang sa ,free willed, flawless ,curious fella; to know why he was what he was And why its difficult for us to be what he was.

What I find - He had NO family; NO responsibilities (not answerable to anybody for anything); NO threatening letters and its after effects; NO fear stemming from the fact that he had NOthing to lose NOt even the degree coz Money Power backed him ( not his so what ?); NO job seeking nd sustaining (and that means NO Boss too ;))

Learning was the forbidden fruit for him so he yearned to learn. Very human isn't it? You want what you are devoid of ;its just that in ur case the luxury is not studies.

And it was a FILM after all a BOLLYWOOD flick which in itself sums it all. And woh jo "khud apni raah banata" usme kaante bichane wala koi na hota, u see.

Just Imagine if Sharman's character wanted to be a Wild Life Photographer, how would have that been JUSTIFIED with bhindi 12 rupaiya kilo? And a dowry demand of Maruti 800 coz his sis was "28", apart from the sundries like Mom's saree etc. etc. and the eternal etc.?Still justified?

And what if they had not been sucess stories? Which frustration do you think will be more? Which regret will be more? Can you really answer that question today and stick to it even 10 years later ,as in the film, when you are not successful. NOT successful in terms of the parameters set by this Material World. We , consciously, sub consciously ,do tend to perceive ourselves and feel about ourselves just as the world sees us. We are always subject to approval.

Do children really know themselves enough to know what they are good at and what will keep them happy all their lives? We all go through phases.Believe me I don't say that parents or as a matter of fact anyone else actually knows better when I ask this. Its just one of the unanswered with no set solution Questions that I have posed.


For me its IDIOT Glorified STUPIDS yet to be!!!  And for people thinking otherwise I really liked the movie. I like Feel Good Films as a matter of fact.
There is a basic premise of the film though which I am really a BIG TIME believer in too. Life mein Excellence ke peeche bhago success jhak marke peeche ayegi. BUT there is a BUT. You need to get over that BUT. I cudnt make out a fool proof plan for it except the significance and relevance of the Feel Good factor. We all need to feel good all the time or fool ourselves to feel good. It really helps.


This Sunday I saw The Dark Knight first time. And I noe it is quite late to discuss The Dark Knight. But I remember a line that the Joker said "Nobody panics when things go according to plan, even if the plans are horrifying." So true. We never realise. Priyadarshan and Rohit Shetty though find chaos humorous. Is Chaos really rib tickling or panicking? A bit off track but that thought remained and so had to put it down.